It’s Always About Money
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It’s not about money, but it’s always about money. In today’s episode of Financial Fridays, I dive into our complicated relationship with money, exploring how it can empower or limit us and why talking about it often feels taboo.
Tune in as I discuss balancing passion with financial security, the importance of recognizing your worth, and how generational views on money are shifting. By opening up the conversation and embracing your value, you can turn money from a point of conflict into a tool for building stronger relationships. Listen now!
It’s Not About Money, But It’s Always About Money
Welcome to another episode of In Between Homes. Today’s Financial Friday topic is, "It’s always about money." While it may seem like money isn’t everything, it’s often at the root of frustration, misunderstandings, and conflict—whether in relationships, work, or family life.
Money has become such a taboo subject in our society, making it hard to have open conversations about it. But is that really necessary?
Imagine how much easier life could be if we started talking about money and our financial insecurities openly.
Have you ever felt underpaid or undervalued at work?
Or questioned whether you should ask for a raise?
These thoughts can make us feel isolated, constantly questioning our worth. On the other hand, maybe you’re confident you deserve more and are ready to ask for it now.
Younger generations seem to embrace this confidence, even though it can be disruptive to older generations. The truth is, we all need money to live, and we need quite a bit of it for a comfortable life. Whether it’s upgrading to business-class flights or hiring help for home and business, financial security matters. I’d love for us to have more conversations about money—because it’s part of life, and we shouldn’t be afraid to talk about it.
Conversation Around Money
To talk about money openly, we need to feel safe and secure.
I’ve often heard people say, “I love my job, but it’s not financially rewarding. Maybe I’ll just stay because I enjoy the work.” But then, one day, they leave, and it turns out—it was about the money.
That’s why I say, it’s never about money, but it’s always about money.
When we avoid discussing it, we lose the chance to express our value. In workplaces, relationships, or families, unresolved money issues can lead to conflict, whether it’s a job where people don’t feel valued or disputes over inheritance.
I’ve experienced this in my own family, and it’s heartbreaking to watch relationships fall apart over money—not because there’s too much or too little, but because the relationship with money is unhealthy.
It takes courage and vulnerability to have these conversations, to say, “I don’t feel valued for the work I do,” or, “I deserve more because I know my worth.”
So today, let’s be brave. If money is creating tension in your life, take a moment to reflect. Ask yourself, “How do I feel about this situation? What would make me feel valued? What am I really asking for—more money, or is it validation, safety, or connection?”
Once you understand what money represents for you, you’ll be able to communicate your needs more clearly, building healthier relationships around it.
And the more you value yourself, the more opportunities at the right value will come your way.
Understanding Your Value
The first step to being paid what you’re worth is understanding your own value. You need to take the time to feel confident in what your work is truly worth. If you're making $2,000 now but believe you're worth $10,000, that’s a big gap.
But if you genuinely feel that you bring that much value, know your expertise, and understand the impact of your service, you can make it happen. It all starts with you—your relationship with money and how you view your worth.
For others to see your value, you need to showcase it. Show your expertise, confidence, and how you solve problems worth far more than your paycheck or service fee.
I often get asked by clients, “How do I price myself?” It’s not just about the market. When I started in Indonesia, I priced myself low, as it was the norm there. But with every new client, I raised my fees as I gained more confidence and recognized the value I was delivering. Over time, I dramatically increased my rates, and with that came better clients—ones who valued my work, respected my time, and were happy to pay more.
There’s no shame in starting low, but don’t stay there.
Increase your fee with every new opportunity because the right clients—those who see your value—are out there. And often, they’re far less demanding than those looking for a bargain.
This applies whether you're running a business or working in a corporate job. Embody your knowledge, own your expertise, and confidently express your value. When you can clearly communicate what you bring to the table, along with what you expect to be paid, that confidence will often lead to a “yes.”
Let’s build better relationships with money by first knowing our worth and confidently expressing it. You deserve to be well-paid. To hear more on today’s Financial Friday topic, It’s Always About Money, tune in on your favorite podcast platform.
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